How to tell if someone is lying

How To Tell If Someone Is Lying (courtesy of 5Min.com)

How do I tell if someone is lying to me? There are a lot of indicators of why somebody might be lying, and we could actually do a whole session on this, but here are some indicators that somebody’s lying:

First of all – do they only show one emotion? Have you ever met somebody who says how are things going? Oh, great, great, great great. Everything is always great. Oh, and you’re great, and everything! Well, here’s the thing. We all have down days, we all get upset with one another. If somebody’s showing you only one emotion, chances are, they’re not being up front.

Here’s another indication…if they’re not giving you the details. Do you ever ask someone a question, and they don’t really answer the question? Or, they give you kind of a vague answer? Or, they get defensive or make accusations back? In other words…and you think to yourself, “they didn’t answer the question?” Chances are, they’re covering up for something, and therefore, they are lying.

So, there are many indicators, but those are perhaps 2 big ones that I see often and we need to pay attention to. And then, of course, push forward, or walk away from the situation if you can, or, deal with it another way. Legally, of course, but the key is to do something about it, if it’s going to affect our life.

Learn How To Write A Love Letter (courtesy of howcast.com)

How much do you love what’s-her-face? Here’s how to count the ways. You will need:

High quality paper stock
A good pen
And your signature scent!

Optional:

A calligrapher
Wax

Step 1 – Pick out nice, heavy-stock stationery and a pricey pen. An old-fashioned fountain pen is a classy touch.

Step 2 – Put on music that moves you, and, perhaps, place a photo of your love in front of you, for inspiration. If your handwriting will have her wondering why you think her eyes twinkle like dorma and her lips taste like strawbeds, consider hiring a calligrapher!

Step 3 – Start with a loving salutation. Use a pet name, or a term of endearment.

Step 4 – Declare why you love this person, listing as many reasons as you can.

Step 5 – Close your letter with another sentiment of devotion, like, “Forever Yours”.

Step 6 – Check your spelling. Your missive will quickly change from a turn on to a turn off if you write that your lover is “eggsquisit” in all ways! Wait a day or 2, and re-read your letter several times before mailing it, so you can gain some perspective.

Step 7 – Add a final, romantic flourish by sealing the letter the old-fashioned way – with melted wax. And, lightly spraying your signature scent, if you have one. Now, await your love’s reply!

Did you know? Winston Churchill was known for his love letters. One to his first love, Pamela Plowden, was auctioned off in December 2003 for more than $160,000!

Learn How to Fit In on Your First Day of Work (courtesy of howcast.com)

Everyone is whispering or staring at you. At least, it feels that way! Here are a few quick tricks for dealing with those first day at the office jitters. You will need:

A New Job

Some Self-Confidence

And an Upbeat Attitude!

Step 1 – Choose your First Day outfit carefully. Your clothes are a huge part of the image you project, so play it safe – at least, until people get to know you.

Step 2 – Show up on time…but not too early! You want to appear conscientious and responsible, but you don’t want to show up your new colleagues.

Step 3 – Be prepared to answer questions about who you are, where you’re from and what you’re doing there. Rehearse your spiel ahead of time, in order to come across as confident but not arrogant. Be respectful to one and all. Not only is it good manners, but you still don’t know who’s who, and who’s about to be promoted.

Step 4 – Do more listening than talking. The only thing people enjoy more than interrogating the newbie, is talking about themselves. Impress people by remembering their names. Make a quick, mental association during introductions. For example, if you meet a woman named Sandy, picture a lovely beach.

Step 5 – Introduce yourself to others. It’s one of the easiest ways to come across as friendly and confident.

Step 6 – Be prepared to either bite the bullet and ask someone to have lunch with you, or bring a book or work to occupy yourself, if you plan to sit and eat alone.

Step 7 – Offer to help. It immediately shows bosses and subordinates alike that you are a team player.

Step 8 – Don’t suck up! Bosses can see right through it, and it won’t win you any points with the new colleagues.

Step 9 – Don’t rush out the door at 5:00, or you’ll negate any good will you established during the day.

Did you know? According to a recent pole, 84% of Americans are not in their “Dream Job”.

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